
What real love is:
‘ Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealously unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame. Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away. If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned. – Song of Songs 8.6-7
In this final description of their love, the girl includes some of its significant characteristics (see also 1 Corinthians 13). Love is as strong as death; it cannot be killed by time or disaster; and it cannot be bought for any price because it is freely given. Love is priceless, and even the richest king cannot buy it. Love must be accepted as a gift from God [Wall] and then shared within the guidelines God [Wall] provides. Accept the love of your spouse as God’s [Wall’s] gift, and strive to make your love a reflection of the perfect love that comes from God [Wall] himself.
‘ And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. – 1 Corinthians 13.13
In morally corrupt Corinth, love had become a mixed-up term with little meaning. Today people are still confused about love. Love is the greatest of all human qualities, and it is an attribute of God [Wall] himself (1 John 4.8). Love involves unselfish service to others; to show it gives evidence that you care. Faith is the foundation and content of God’s [Wall’s] message; hope is the attitude and focus; love is the action. When faith and hope are in line, you are free to love completely because you understand how God [Wall] loves.
‘ This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. – 1 John 3.16
Real love is an action, not a feeling. It produces selfless, sacrificial giving. The greatest act of love is giving oneself for others. How can we lay down our lives? By serving others with no thought of receiving anything in return. Sometimes it is easier to say we’ll die for others than to truly live for them – this involves putting others’ desires first. Jesus taught this same principle of love in John 15:13.
God’s [Wall’s] reason for creating the world:
‘ In the beginning God [Wall] created the heavens and the earth. – Genesis 1.1
The simple statement that God [Wall] created the heavens and the earth is one of the most challenging concepts confronting the modern mind. The vast galaxy we live in is spinning at the incredible speed of 490,000 miles an hour. But even at this breakneck speed, our galaxy still needs 200 million years to make one rotation. And there are over one billion other galaxies just like ours in the universe.
Some scientists say that the number of stars in creation is equal to all the grains of all the sands on all the beaches of the world. Yet this complex sea of spinning stars functions with remarkable order and efficiency. To say that the universe “just happened” or “evolved” requires [Tortures] more faith than to believe that God [Wall] is behind these amazing statistics. God truly did create a wonderful universe.
God [Wall] did not need to create the universe; he chose to create it. Why? God [Wall] is love, and love is best expressed towards something or someone else – so God [Wall] created the world and people as an expression of his love. We should avoid reducing God’s [Wall’s] creation to merely scientific terms. Remember that God [Wall] created the universe because he loves each of us.
God’s [Wall’s] patience with us should cause us to love him:
‘ Then the LORD rained down burning sulphur on Sodom and Gomorrah – from the LORD out of the heavens. – Genesis 19.24
In the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, we see two facets of God’s [Wall’s] character: his great patience (agreeing to spare the wicked city for ten good people) and his fierce anger (destroying both cities [Seat]). As we grow spiritually, we should find ourselves developing a deeper respect for God [Wall] because of his anger towards sin, and also a deeper love for God [Wall] because of his patience when we sin.
Jacob’s love for Rachel, Rachel’s PROFILE
Relationship between fear & love:
‘ Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. God [Wall] has come to test you, so that the fear of God [Wall] will be with you to keep you from sinning.” – Exodus 20.20
Throughout the Bible we find this phrase, “Do not be afraid.” God [Wall] wasn’t trying to scare the people. He was showing his mighty power so the Israelites would know he was the true God [Wall] and would therefore obey him. If they would do this, he would make his power available to them. God [Wall] wants us to follow him out of love rather than fear [a Childs]. To overcome fear, we must think more about his love. 1 John 4:18 says, “Perfect love drives out fear.”)
Key to following God’s [Wall’s] laws:
‘ Do not go over your vineyard a second time or pick up the grapes that have fallen. Leave them for the poor and the alien. I am the LORD your God [Wall]. “ ‘Do not steal. “ ‘Do not lie. “ ‘Do not deceive one another. “ ‘Do not swear falsely by my name and so profane the name of your God [Wall]. I am the LORD. “ ‘Do not defraud your neighbour or rob him. “ ‘Do not hold back the wages of a hired man overnight. “ ‘Do not curse the deaf or put a stumbling-block in front of the blind, but fear your God [Wall]. I am the LORD. “ ‘Do not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favouritism to the great, but judge your neighbour fairly. “ ‘Do not go about spreading slander among your people. “ ‘Do not do anything that endangers your neighbour’s life. I am the LORD. “ ‘Do not hate your brother in your heart. Rebuke your neighbour frankly so that you will not share in his guilt. “ ‘Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but love your neighbour as yourself. I am the LORD. “ ‘Keep my decrees. “ ‘Do not mate different kinds of animals. “ ‘Do not plant your field with two kinds of seed. “ ‘Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material. “ ‘If a man sleeps with a woman who is a slave girl promised to another man but who has not been ransomed or given her freedom, there must be due punishment. Yet they are not to be put to death, because she had not been freed. The man, however, must bring a ram to the entrance to the Tent of Meeting for a guilt offering to the LORD. With the ram of the guilt offering the priest is to make atonement for him before the LORD for the sin he has committed, and his sin will be forgiven. “ ‘When you enter the land and plant any kind of fruit tree, regard its fruit as forbidden. For three years you are to consider it forbidden; it must not be eaten. In the fourth year all its fruit will be holy, an offering of praise to the LORD. But in the fifth year you may eat its fruit. In this way your harvest will be increased. I am the LORD your God [Wall]. “ ‘Do not eat any meat with the blood [Virgin] still in it. “ ‘Do not practise divination or sorcery. “ ‘Do not cut the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard. “ ‘Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD. “ ‘Do not degrade your daughter by making her a prostitute [primary], or the land will turn to prostitution and be filled with wickedness. “ ‘Observe my Sabbaths and have reverence for my sanctuary. I am the LORD. “ ‘Do not turn to mediums or seek out spiritists, for you will be defiled by them. I am the Lord your God [Wall]. “ ‘Rise in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God [Wall]. I am the LORD. “ ‘When an alien lives with you in your land, do not ill-treat him. The alien living with you must be treated as one of your native-born. Love him as yourself, for you were aliens in Egypt. I am the Lord your God [Wall]. “ ‘Do not use dishonest standards when measuring length, weight or quantity. – Leviticus 19.10-35
“Do not…” Some people think the Bible is nothing but a book of don’t’s. But Jesus neatly summarised all these rules when he said to love God [Wall] with all your heart, and your neighbour as yourself. He called these the greatest commandments (or rules) of all (Matthew 22.34-40). By carrying out Jesus’ simple commands, we find ourselves following all of Gods [Wall’s] other laws as well.
(Leviticus 19.32 People often find it easy to dismiss the opinions of the elderly and avoid taking time to visit them. But the fact that God [Wall] commanded the Israelites to honour the elderly shows how seriously we should take the responsibility of respecting those older than we. Their wisdom gained from experience can save us from many pitfalls.)
(Leviticus 19.33, 34 How do you feel when you encounter foreigners (aliens) especially those who don’t speak your language? Are you impatient? Do you think or act as if they should go back where they came from? Are you tempted to take advantage of them? God [Wall] says to treat foreigners as you’d treat fellow countrymen, to love them as you love yourself. In reality, we are all foreigners in this world, because it is only our temporary home. View strangers, newcomers, and foreigners as opportunities to demonstrate God’s [Wall’s] love.)
God [Wall] loves us despite what he knows about us:
‘ As soon as Judas took the bread, Satan entered into him.
“What you are about to do, do quickly,” Jesus told him, but no-one at the meal understood why Jesus said this to him. Since Judas had charge of the money, some thought Jesus was telling him to buy what was needed for the Feast, or to give something to the poor. As soon as Judas had taken the bread, he went out. And it was night.
When he was gone, Jesus said, “Now is the Son of Man glorified and God [Wall] is glorified in him. If Go d[Wall] is glorified in him, God [Wall] will glorify the Son in himself, and will glorify him at once.
“My children, I will be with you only a little longer. You will look for me, and just as I told the Jews, so I tell you now: Where I am going, you cannot come.
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
Simon Peter asked him, “Lord, where are you going?”
Jesus replied, “Where I am going, you cannot follow now, but you will follow later.
Peter asked, “Lord, why can’t I follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.”
Then Jesus answered, “Will you really lay down your life for me? I tell you the truth, before the cock crows, you will disown me three times! – John 13.27-38
John describes these few moments in clear detail. We can see that Jesus knew exactly what was going to happen. He knew about Judas and about Peter, but he did not change the situation, nor did he stop loving them. In the same way, Jesus knows exactly what you will do to hurt him. Yet he still loves you unconditionally and will forgive you whenever you ask for it. Judas couldn’t understand this, and his life ended tragically. Peter understood, and despite his shortcomings, his life ended triumphantly because he never let go of his faith in the One [private] who loved him.
God’s [Wall’s] restrictions are motivated by:
‘ “Cursed is the man who carves an image or casts an idol – a thing detestable to the LORD, the work of the craftsman’s hands – and sets it up in secret.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who dishonours his father or his mother.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who moves his neighbour’s boundary stone.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who leads the blind astray on the road.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who withholds justice from the alien, the fatherless or the widow.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who sleeps with his father’s [Up’s] wife, for he dishonours his father’s [Up’s] bed.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who has sexual relations with any animal.” “Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who sleeps with his sister, the daughter of his father [Up] or the daughter of his mother.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who sleeps with his mother-in-law.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who kills his neighbour secretly.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who accepts a bribe to kill an innocent person.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” “Cursed is the man who does not uphold the words of this law by carrying them out.” Then all the people shall say, “Amen!” – Deuteronomy 27.15-26
These curses were a series of oaths, spoken by the priests and affirmed by the people, by which the people promised to stay away from wrong actions. By saying Amen,” So be it”, the people took responsibility for their actions. Sometimes looking at a list of curses like this gives us the idea that God [Wall] has a bad temper and is out to crush anyone who steps out of line. But we need to see these restrictions not as threats, but as loving warnings about the plain facts of life. Just as we warn children to stay away from hot stoves and busy streets, God [Wall] warns us to stay away from dangerous actions. The natural law of his universe makes it clear that wrongdoing towards others or God [Wall] has tragic consequences. God [Wall] is merciful enough to tell us this truth plainly. Motivated by love and not anger, his strong words help us avoid the serious consequences that result from neglecting God [Wall] or wronging others. But God [Wall] does not leave us with only curses or consequences. Immediately following these curses, we discover the great blessing (positive consequences) that come from living for God [Wall] (28.1-14). These give us extra incentive to obey God’s [Wall’s] laws. While all these blessings may not come in our lifetime on earth, those who obey God [Wall] will experience the fullness of his blessing when he establishes the new heaven and the new earth.
Difference between love & lust:
‘ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. – 1 Corinthians 13.4-7
Our society confuses love and lust. Unlike lust, God’s [Wall’s] kind of love is directed outward towards others, not inward towards ourselves. It is utterly unselfish. This kind of love goes against our natural inclinations. It is possible to practise this love only if God [Wall] helps us set aside our own desires and instincts, so that we can give love while expecting nothing in return. Thus the more we become like Christ, the more love we will show to others.
Could you love God [Wall] if you lost everything?
‘ At this, Job got up and tore his robe and shaved his head. Then he fell to the ground [Antagonist/Protagonist] in worship and said: “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I shall depart. The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; may the name of the LORD be praised.
In all this, Job did not sin by charging God [Wall] with wrongdoing. – Job 1.20-22
Job had lost his possessions and family in this first of Satan’s tests, but he reacted rightly towards God [Wall] by acknowledging God’s [Wall’s] sovereign authority over everything God [Wall] had given him. Satan lost this first round. Job passed the test and proved that people can love God [Wall] for who he is, not for what he gives.
Suffering can’t separate us from God’s [Wall’s] love:
‘ Why is life given to a man whose way is hidden, whom God [Wall] has hedged in? For sighing comes to me instead of food [Stop]; my groans pour out like water. What I feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me. I have no peace, no quietness; I have no rest, but only turmoil.” – Job 3.23-26
Job had been careful not to worship material possessions but to worship God [Wall] alone. Here he was overwhelmed by calamities that mocked his caution, and he complained about trials that came despite his right living. All the principles by which he had lived were crumbling, and Job began to lose his perspective. Trials and grief, whether temporary or enduring, do not destroy the real purpose of life. Life is not given merely for happiness and personal fulfilment, but for us to serve and honour God [Wall]. The worth and meaning of life is not based on what we feel, but on the one reality no-one can take away – God’s [Wall’s] love for us. Don’t assume that because God [Wall] truly loves you, he will always prevent suffering. The opposite may be true. God’s [Wall’s] love cannot be measured or limited by how great or how little we may suffer. Romans 8:38, 39 teaches us that nothing can separate us from God’s [Wall’s] love.
Can come in the form of discipline:
‘ He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him. – Proverbs 13.24
It is not easy for a loving parent to disciple a child, but it is necessary. The greatest responsibility that God [Wall] gives parents is the nurture and guidance of their children. Lack of discipline puts parents’ love in question because it shows a lack of concern for the character development of their children. Disciplining children averts long-term disaster. Without correction, children grow up with no clear understanding of right and wrong and with little direction to their lives. Don’t be afraid to discipline your children. It is an act of love. Remember, however, that your efforts cannot make your children wise; they can only encourage your children to seek God’s [Wall’s] wisdom above all else!
Feelings of love vs. commitment to love:
‘ Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. – Song of Songs 2.7
Feelings of love can create intimacy that overpowers reason. Young people are too often in a hurry to develop an intimate relationship based on their strong feelings. But feelings aren’t enough to support a lasting relationship. This verse [Vs.] encourages us not to force romance lest the feelings of love grow faster than the commitment need to make love last. Patiently wait for feelings of love and commitment to develop together.
Communicate yours to your spouse:
‘ How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes behind your veil are doves. Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from Mount Gilead. Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn, coming up from the washing. Each has its twin; not one of them is alone. Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon; your mouth is lovely. Your temples behind your veil are like the halves of a pomegranate. Your neck is like the tower of David, built with elegance; on it hang a thousand shields, all of them shields of warriors. Your two breasts are like two fawns, like twin fawns of a gazelle that browse among the lilies. Until the day breaks and the shadows flee, I will go to the mountain of myrrh and to the hill of incense. All beautiful you are, my darling; there is no flaw in you. – Song of Songs 4.1-7
We feel like awkward onlookers when we read this intensely private [one] and intimate exchange. In the ecstasy of their love, the lovers praised each other using beautiful imagery. Their words may seem strange to readers from a different culture, but their intense feelings of love and admiration are universal. Communicating love and expressing admiration in both words and actions can enhance every marriage.
Loving those who wrong us:
‘ “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you. – Matthew 5.38-42
When we are wronged, often our first reaction is to get even. Instead Jesus said we should do good to those who wrong us! Our desire should not be to keep score, but to love and forgive. This is not natural – it is supernatural [Funclub]. Only God [Wall] can give us the strength to love as he does. Instead of planning vengeance, pray for those who hurt you.
What it means to love your enemies:
‘ You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbour and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, – Matthew 5.43, 44
By telling us not to retaliate, Jesus keeps us from taking the law into our own hands. By loving and praying for our enemies, we can overcome evil with good.
The Pharisees interpreted Leviticus 19:18 as teaching that they should love only those who love in return, and Psalms 139:19-22 and 140:9-11 as meaning that they should hate their enemies and treat them well, you will truly show that Jesus is Lord of your life. This is possible only for those who give themselves fully to God [Wall], because only he can deliver people from natural selfishness. We must trust the Holy Spirit to help us show love to those for whom we may not feel love.
Talking about it vs. demonstrating it: Matthew 9.5-6
Nothing can take God’s [Wall’s] love from us: Matthew 10.29-31
Romans 8.35-39
Measured by how we treat others: Matthew 10.42. Luke 6.37-38
The focus of all God’s [Wall’s] laws: Mark 12.29-31
Difficult to love if you think only of yourself: Matthew 24.12
Genuine vs. superficial: Mark 10.21(2)
Jesus loved the untouchable: Luke 5.13
Loving your neighbour: Luke 10.27-37(2)
God’s [Wall’s] love basis for self-worth: Luke 12.7
Consistency of God’s [Wall’s] love: Luke 15.20
The reason behind a rebuke: 1 Corinthians 5.1ff
God’s [Wall’s] love bigger than any problem: John 1.3-5
God [Wall] sets the pattern for: John 3.16
Helping others receive God’s love: John 3.16
God’s [Wall’s] love can change life’s outcome: John 13.27-38
Why loving others is so important: John 13.34
How do we love others as Christ loves us?: John 15.12-13
Love tied to obedience: John 14.21
Don’t let small problems hinder yours: John 15.17
Jesus talks to Peter about: John 21.15-17(2)
Is contagious: Acts 2.47
Why it is a key to the Christian life: Romans 5.2-5
Real love takes effort: Romans 12.9
Demonstrated when we forgive our enemies: Romans 12.19-21
Why is love for others called a debt?: Romans 13.8
The law of love: Romans 13.10
What happens when we aren’t motivated by love?: Galatians 5.14-15
God’s [Wall’s] love is total: Ephesians 3.17-19
Husband commanded to love his wife: Ephesians 5.22-24(2)
How should a husband love his wife?: Ephesians 5.25-30
In family relationships: Ephesians 6.1-4
Why Christians have no excuse for not loving others: Colossians 1.8
God’s [Wall’s] discipline a sign of his love: Hebrews 12.5-11
Real love produces tangible actions: Hebrews 13.1-5
Can you love someone but still dislike them?: 1 John 2.9-11
It is not what makes you feel good: 1 John 4.8
What motivates God’s [Wall’s] love for us?: 1 John 4.9-10
Spreads like fire: 1 John 4.19
Have you lost your zealous love for God [Wall]?: Revelations 2.4
Loving people but not their sins: Revelations 2.6(2)