Removing it from your life:
‘ Jacob looked up and there was Esau, coming with his four hundred men; so he divided the children among Leah, Rachel and the two maidservants. He put the maidservants and their children in front, Leah and her children next, and Rachel and Joseph in the rear. He himself went on ahead and bowed down to the ground seven times as he approached his brother.
But Esau ran to meet Jacob and embraced him; he threw his arms around his neck and kissed him. And they wept. Then Esau looked up and saw the women and children. “Who are these with you?” he asked.
Jacob answered, “They are the children God has graciously given your servant.” Then the maidservants and their children approached and bowed down. Next, Leah and her children came and bowed down. Last of all came Joseph and Rachel, and they too bowed down.
Esau asked, “What do you mean by all these droves I met?”
“To find favour in your eyes, my lord,” he said.
But Esau said, “I already have plenty, my brother. Keep what you have for yourself.”
“No, please!” said Jacob. “If I have found favour in your eyes, accept this gift from me. For to see your face is like seeing the face of God, now that you have received me favourably. Please accept the present that was brought to you, for God has been gracious to me and I have all I need.” And because Jacob insisted, Esau accepted it. – Genesis 33.1-11
It is refreshing to see Esau’s change of heart when the two brothers meet again. The bitterness over losing his birthright and blessing (25.29-34) seems gone. Instead Esau was content with what he had. Jacob even exclaimed how great it was to see his brother obviously pleased with him (33.10).
Life can bring us some bad situations. We can feel cheated, as Esau did, but we don’t have to remain bitter. We can remove bitterness from our lives by honestly expressing our feelings to God [Wall], forgiving those who have wronged us, and being content with what we have.
Don’t mix despair with it:
‘ Her mother-in-law asked her, “Where di you glean today? Where did you work? Blessed be the man who took notice of you!”
Then Ruth told her mother-in-law about the one at whose place she had been working. “The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz,” she said.
“The LORD bless him!” Naomi said to her daughter-in-law. “He has not stopped showing his kindness to the living and the dead.” She added, “That man is our close relative; he is one of our kinsman-redeemers.” – Ruth 2.19-20
Naomi had felt bitter (1.20, 21), but her faith in God was still alive, and she praised God [Wall] for Boaz’s kindness to Ruth. In her sorrows, she still trusted God [Wall] and acknowledged his goodness. We may feel bitter about a situation, but we must never despair. Today is always a new opportunity for experiencing God’s care. (For more on kinsman-redeemer, see the note on 3.1-9.)
(2.20 Though Ruth may not have always recognised God’s guidance, he had been with her every step of the way. She went to glean and “just happened” to end up in the field owned by Boaz who “just happened” to be a close relative. This was more than mere coincidence. As you go about your daily tasks, God [Wall] is working in your life in ways you may not even notice. We must not close the door on what God [Wall] can do. Events do not occur by luck or coincidence. We should have faith that God [Wall] is directing our lives for his purpose.)
(‘ As she got up to glean, Boaz gave orders to his men, “Even if she gathers among the sheaves, don’t embarrass her. Rather, pull out some stalks for her from the bundles and leave them for her to pick up, and don’t rebuke her.” – Ruth 2.15, 16 The characters in the book of Ruth are classic examples of good people in action. Boaz went far beyond the intent of the gleaners’ law in demonstrating his kindness and generosity. Not only did he let Ruth glean in his field, he also told his workers to let some of the grain fall in her path. Out of his abundance, he provided for the needy. How often do you go beyond the accepted patterns of providing for those less fortunate? Do more than the minimum for others.)
(‘ One day Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, “My daughter, should I not try to find a home for you, where you will be well provided for? Is not Boaz, with whose servant girls you have been, a kinsman of ours? Tonight he will be winnowing barley on the threshing-floor. Wash and perfume yourself, and put on your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing-floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking. When he lies down, note the place where he is lying. Then go and uncover his feet and lie down. He will tell you what to do.” “I will do whatever you say,” Ruth answered. So she went down to the threshing-floor and did everything her mother-in-law told her to do. When Boaz had finished eating and drinking and was in good spirits, he went over to lie down at the far end of the grain pile. Ruth approached quietly, uncovered his feet and lay down. In the middle of the night something startled the man, and he turned and discovered a woman lying at his feet. “Who are you?” he asked. – Ruth 3.1-9 As widows, Ruth and Naomi could only look forward to difficult times. (See the note on 1.8, 9 for more on the widow’s life.) But when Naomi heard the news about Boaz, her hope for the future was renewed (2.20). Typical of her character, she thought first of Ruth, encouraging her to see if Boaz would take the responsibility of being a “kinsman-redeemer” to her (2.20). A kinsman-redeemer was a relative who volunteered to take responsibility for the extended family. When a woman’s husband died, the law (Deuteronomy 25.5-10) provided that she could marry a brother of her dead husband. But Naomi had no more sons. In such a case, the nearest relative to the deceased husband could become a kinsman-redeemer and marry the widow. The nearest relative did not have to marry the widow. If he chose not to, the next nearest relative could take his place. If no-one chose to help the widow, she would probably live in poverty for the rest of her life because in Israelite culture the inheritance was passed on to the son or nearest male relative, not to the wife. To take the sting out of these inheritance rules, there were laws for gleaning and kinsman-redeemers. We have a kinsman-redeemer in Jesus Christ, who though he was God [Wall], came to earth as a man in order to save us. By his death on the cross, he has redeemed us from sin and hopelessness and thereby purchased us to be his own possession (1 Peter 1.18, 19). This guarantees our eternal inheritance.)
Can build to an obsession:
‘ Haman went out that day happy and in high spirits. But when he saw Mordecai at the king’s gate and observed that he neither rose nor showed fear in his presence, he was filled with rage against Mordecai. – Esther 5.9
Hatred and bitterness are like weed swith long roots that grow in the heart and corrupt all of life. Haman was so consumed with hatred towards Mordecai that he could not even enjoy the honour of being invited to Esther’s party. Hebrews 12:15 warns us to watch out “that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many”. Don’t let hatred and its resulting bitterness build in your heart. Like Haman, you will find it backfiring against you (see 6.13; 7.9, 10). If the mere mention of someone’s name provokes you to anger, confess your bitterness as sin. Ignoring bitterness, hiding it from others, or making superficial changes [Royal Offer] in behaviour is not enough [army]. If bitterness isn’t completely removed, it will grow back making matters worse.
(‘ So Mordecai went away and carried out all of Esther’s instructions. On the third day Esther put on her royal robes and stood in the inner court of the palace, in front of the king’s hall. The king was sitting on his royal throne in the hall, facing the entrance. – Esther 4.17-5.1 God was in control [Fiscal Year-End], yet Mordecai and Esther had to act. We cannot understand how both can be true at the same time, and yet they are. God [Wall] chooses to work through those willing to act for him. We should pray as if all depended on God and act as if all depended on us. We should avoid two extremes: doing nothing, and feeling that we must do everything.)
(‘ His wife Zeresh and all his friends said to him, “Have a gallows built, seventy-five feet high, and ask the king in the morning to have Mordecai hanged on it. Then go with the king to the dinner and be happy.” This suggestion delighted Haman, and he had the gallows built. – Esther 5.14 Haman’s family and friends, who were as arrogant as he, suggested that the gallows be 75 feet high, probably built on the city [Seat] Wall or some prominent building. They wanted to make sure that all the people of the city [Seat] saw Mordecai’s death and would be reminded of the consequences of disobeying Haman. Ironically, these high gallows allowed everyone to see Haman’s death.)
(‘ That night the king could not sleep; so he ordered the book of the chronicles, the record of his reign, to be brought in and read to him. It was found recorded there that Mordecai had exposed Bigthana and Teresh, two the king’s officers who guarded the doorway, who had conspired to assassinate King Xerxes. – Esther 6.1, 2 Unable to sleep, the king decided to review the history of his reign, and his servants read to him about Mordecai’s good deed. This seems coincidental, but God [Wall] is always at work. God [Wall] has been working quietly and patiently throughout your life as well. The events that have come together for good are not mere coincidence; they are the result of God’s [Wall’s] sovereign control [Fiscal Year-End] over the course of people’s lives (Romans 8.28).) [That’s why I said syd Field is “Evening”.]
Forgiveness changes bitterness to joy:
‘ But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’
“ ‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. – Luke 15.30
In the story of the lost son, the father’s response is contrasted with the older brother’s. The father forgave because he was filled with love. The son refused to forgive because he was bitter about the injustice of it all. His resentment rendered him just as lost to the father’s love as his younger brother had been. Don’t let anything keep you from forgiving others. If you are refusing to forgive people, you are missing a wonderful opportunity to experience joy and share it with others. Make your joy grow: forgive somebody who has hurt you.
(“Meanwhile, the older son was in the field. When he came near the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the servants and asked him what was going on. ‘Your brother has come,’ he replied, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’ “The older brother became angry and refused to go in. So his father went out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ “ ‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. – Luke 15.25-31 It was hard for the older brother to accept his younger brother when he returned, and it is just as difficult to accept “younger brothers” today. People who repent after leading notoriously sinful lives are often held in suspicion; churches are sometimes unwilling to admit them to membership. Instead [Communication], we should rejoice like the angels in heaven when an unbeliever repents and turns to God [Wall]. Like the father, accept repentant sinners wholeheartedly and give them the support and encouragement that they need to grow in Christ.)
(‘ But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ “ – Luke 15.32 In Jesus’ story, the older brother represented the Pharisees, who were angry and resentful that sinners were being welcomed into God’s [Wall’s] kingdom. After all, the Pharisees must have thought, we have sacrificed and done so much for God [Wall]. How easy it is to resent God’s [Wall’s] gracious forgiveness of others whom we consider to be far worse sinners than ourselves. But when our self-righteousness gets in the way of rejoicing when others come to Jesus, we are no better than the Pharisees.)
Turning bitterness to opportunity:
‘ Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel. As a result, it has become clear throughout the whole palace guard and to everyone else that I am in chains for Christ. Because of my chains, most of the brothers in the Lord have been encouraged to speak the word of God [Wall] more courageously and fearlessly. – Philippians 1.12-14
Being imprisoned would cause many people to become bitter and to give up, but Paul saw it as one more opportunity to spread the Good News of Christ. Paul realised that his current circumstances weren’t as important as what he did with them. Turning a bad situation [Elixir, not Basilica] into a good one, he reached out to the Roman soldiers who made up the palace guard and encouraged those Christians who were afraid of persecution. We may not be in prison, but we still have plenty of opportunities to be discouraged – times of indecision, financial burdens, family conflict, church conflict, or the loss of our jobs. How we act in such situations will reflect what we believe. Like Paul, look for ways to demonstrate your faith even in bad situations. Whether or not the situation improves, your faith will grow stronger.
(1.13 How did Paul end up in chains in a Roman prison? While he was visiting Jerusalem, some Jews had him arrested for preaching the gospel, but he appealed to Caesar to hear his case (Acts 21.15-25.12). He was then escorted by soldiers to Rome, where he was placed under house arrest while awaiting trial – not a trial for breaking civil law, but for proclaiming the Good News of Christ. At that time, the Roman authorities did not consider this to be a serious charge. A few years later, however, Rome would take a different view of Christianity and make every effort to stamp it out of existence. Paul’s house arrest allowed him some degree of freedom. He could have visitors, continue to preach, and write letters such as this one. A brief record of Paul’s time in Rome is found in Acts 28.11-31. The “whole palace guard” refers to the Praetorian guard, the elite groups housed in the emperor’s palace.)
(1.14 When we speak fearlessly for Christ, or live faithfully for him during difficult situations, we encourage others to do the same. Be an encouragement by the way that you live.)
(‘ filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ – to the glory and praise of God. – Philippians 1.11 The “fruit of righteousness” includes all of the character traits flowing from a right relationship with God [Wall]. There is no other way for us to gain this fruit of righteousness than through Christ. See Galatians 5.22, 23 for the “fruit of the Spirit”.)
(‘ It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill. The latter do so in love, knowing that I am put here for the defence of the gospel. The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I am in chains. But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice. – Philippians 1.15-18 Paul had an amazingly selfless attitude. He knew that some were preaching to build their own reputations, taking advantage of Paul’s imprisonment to try to make a name for themselves. Regardless of the motives of these preachers, Paul rejoiced that the gospel was being preached. Some Christians serve for the wrong reasons. Paul wouldn’t condone, nor does God [Wall] excuse, their motives, but we should be glad if God [Wall] uses their message [Genre], regardless of their motives.)
Danger of:
‘ See to it that no-one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. – Hebrews 12.15
Like a small root that grows into a great tree, bitterness springs [Hansel & Gretel’s Witch] up in our hearts and overshadows even our deepest Christian relationships. A “bitter root” comes when we allow disappointment to grow into resentment, or when we nurse grudges over past hurts. Bitterness brings with it jealousy, dissension, and immorality. When the Holy Spirit [Centre] fills us, however, he can heal the hurt that causes bitterness.
(‘ Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees! “Make level paths for your feet, so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed. – Hebrews 12.12, 13 God is not only a disciplining parent but also a demanding coach who pushes us to our limits and requires our lives to be disciplined. Although we may not feel strong enough [Army] to push on to victory [Spoils the language], we will be able to accomplish it as we follow Christ and draw on his strength. Then we can use our growing strength to help those around us who are weak and struggling.)
(12.12, 13 The word therefore is a clue that what follows is important! We must not live with only our own survival in mind. Others will follow our example, and we have a responsibility to them if we are living for Christ, as we claim to be. Does your example make it easier for others to believe in and follow Christ, and to mature in him? Or would those who follow you end up confused and misled?)
(‘ Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness no-one will see the Lord. – Hebrews 12.14 The readers were familiar with the ceremonial cleansing ritual that prepared them for worship, and they knew that they had to be holy or clean in order to enter the temple. Sin always blocks our vision of God [Wall]; so if we want to see God [Wall], we must renounce sin and obey him (see Psalms 24.3, 4). Holiness is coupled with living in peace. A right relationship with God [Wall] leads to right relationships with fellow believers. Although we will not always feel loving towards all other believers, we must pursue peace as we become more Christlike.)
‘ Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life in him. – 1 John 3.15
John echoes Jesus’ teaching that whoever hates another person is a murderer at heart (Matthew 5.21, 22). Christianity is a religion of the heart; outward compliance alone is not enough. Bitterness against someone who has wronged you is an evil cancer within you and will eventually destroy you. Don’t let a “bitter root” (Hebrews 12.15) grow in you or your church.
(‘ do not be like Cain, who belonged to the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own actions were evil and his brother’s were righteous. Do not be surprised, my brothers, if the world hates you. – 1 John 3.12, 13 Cain killed his brother, Abel, when God [Wall] accepted Abel’s offering and not his (Genesis 4.1-16). Abel’s offering showed that Cain was not giving his best to God [Wall], and Cain’s jealous anger drove him to murder. People who are morally upright expose and shame those who aren’t. If we live for God [Wall], the world will often hate us, because we make them painfully aware of their immoral way of living.)
(‘ This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. – 1 John 3.16 Real love is an action, not a feeling. It produces selfless, sacrificial giving. The greatest act of love is giving oneself for others. How can we lay down our lives? By serving others with no thought of receiving anything in return. Sometimes it is easier to say we’ll die for others than to truly live for them – this involves putting others’ desires first. Jesus taught this same principle of love in 1 John 15.13.)
Poor often affected by:
‘ Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him? – James 2.5
When James speaks about the poor, he is talking about those who have no money and also about those whose simple values are despised by much of our affluent society. Perhaps the “poor” people prefer serving to managing, human relationships to financial security, peace to power. This does not mean that the poor will automatically go to heaven and the rich to hell. Poor people, however, are usually more aware of their powerlessness. Thus it is often easier for them to acknowledge their need for salvation. One of the greatest barriers to salvation for the rich is pride. For the poor, bitterness can often bar the way to acceptance of salvation.
(‘ Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts? – James 2.2-4 We are often partial to the rich because we mistakenly assume that riches are a sign of God’s [Wall’s] blessing and approval. But God [Wall] does not promise us earthly rewards or riches; in fact, Christ calls us to be ready to suffer for him and give up everything in order to hold on to eternal life (Matthew 6.19-21; 19.28-30; Luke 12.14-34; Romans 8.15-21; 1 Timothy 6.17-19). we will have untold riches in eternity if we are faithful in our present life (Luke 6.35; John 12.23-25; Galatians 6.7-10; Titus 3.4-8).)
(‘ If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbour as yourself,” you are doing right. – James 2.8 The royal law is the law of our great King Jesus Christ, who said, “Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15.12) This law, originally summarised in Leviticus 19.18, is the basis for all the laws of how people should relate to one another. Christ reinforced this truth in Matthew 22.37-40, and Paul taught it in Romans 13.8 and Galatians 5.14.)
EXTRA
‘ In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God, was hovering over the waters.
And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. God saw that the light was good and he separated the light from the darkness. God called the light “day”, and the darkness he called “night”. And there was evening, and there was morning – the first day.
And God said, “Let there be an expanse between the waters to separate water from water.” So God made the expanse and separated the water under the expanse from the water above it. And it was so. God called the expanse “sky”. And there was evening, and there was morning – the second day.
And God said, “Let the water under the sky be gathered to one place, and let dry ground appear.” And it was so. God called the dry ground “land”, and the gathered waters he called “seas”. And God saw that it was good.
Then God said, “Let the land produce vegetation: seed-bearing plants and trees on the land that bear fruit with seed in it, according to their various kinds.” And it was so. – Genesis 1.1-11
[Syd Field = Evening.]